Fetish 101: Erotic Humiliation
Spankings, bindings, verbal lashings... Erotic humiliation can take many forms; verbal, such as scolding or name calling; animal play, making the submissive eat or drink from pet bowls; erotic objectification, requiring the submissive be used as furniture, or any form of sexual embarrassment. Obviously, the spectrum is vast but the basics are pretty simple: it’s any time a consensual person is turned on by being demeaned or demeaning others. Typically the person being humiliated is in a submissive role, the person administering the scolding or other embarrassment is dominant. However, it is important to note that not all BDSM relationships have humiliation as an element and those that do are likely to consider it edgeplay and thus use a safeword and extensive advance negotiations. The range of possibilities for humiliation is as vast as the possibilities so the key to successful humiliation is to know what a specific individual finds offensive. Practitioners of ...