Isabelle Drake

Something you already know: the female orgasm is more (much more) complex than the male counterpart. See? You did already know that. Here are some things you may not. While men reach orgasm more quickly and frequently, 90% of the time as compared to the woman’s 25%, the male orgasm is usually shorter, reportedly less intense and requires a longer recovery time. Quick facts: 26-32, estimated peak age for a woman’s sexuality, but equal amounts of research show sexual satisfaction is more connected to overall life satisfaction. relaxation, studies shows its single most important element in regard to reaching bliss. 15-40 minutes, that’s the average length of time it takes for a woman to orgasm. women are much more likely to need a “reset” due to distraction or unexpected position changes during those 15-40 minutes. muscular contraction in the lower abdomen precedes the orgasm and can be used by a lover to determine whether a technique is getting the desired results. the labi...

“Why don’t you write something like   Fifty Shades of Grey ?” We romance writers get asked this question by friends and family. I have to admit this question puzzles me. Each time I’m asked I wonder: Do you mean, why don’t I write something about two people seeking love and connection? Do you mean, why don’t I write something erotic? Do you mean, why don’t I write something that pushes the boundaries of relationships? I only wonder these things because me asking them aloud would draw attention to the fact that the person asking the question hasn’t read any of my books. Of course, I don’t care whether or not the person has read my stuff but …well, I don’t want to make things awkward by pointing that out.   Besides, as a writer, here’s the question that makes the most sense to me: Do you mean why don’t I write something that sells millions of copies and creates just as many devoted readers and fans? That one I don’t have an answe...